Who is my ideal partner in marriage?

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Until now I didn’t think about my life partner, But 3weeks ago, when I called my mother, she asked me,” do you have a girl friend?”. At that time I was embarrassed. and I answered to her, “Mom, I think that I’m not enough old for marriage.” but she told me. ”No you are turning to 25 in this year (in Korea’s age)”. So I just answered “yes” and I forgot until now. However when I heard this question, it reminded me about my mother’s question. Thus now, I think it deeply,

 

When I was young and until now, my ideal girl is not changed. Long black hair, not too much tall, beautiful eyes and cute. I don’t like beautiful girls. Because almost cases, if a girl is beautiful, she looks older than her age. But if she is cute, she looks younger than her age. But it is just an ideal girl, not partner of my life. Although if a girl is so beautiful or cute, thus I propose to her, it is a very stupid. If you want to destroy your life, you need to do it. Anyone knows that marriage is so important in out life, it determine result of our life. Frankly, when I meet a girl, I care of condition that 30% percent is appearances and 70% percent is her mind. I think that appearances appeal only a moment to me. I’m sure that after several months or years, I already get used to her appearances, and it can change easily. But mind is different. If adult has certain characteristic, it can not change easily. Thus beautiful minds should be more highly considered than beautiful appearances.

 

I hope that my partner of marriage who is impressing with beautiful mind rather than impressing with beautiful appearances to other. She know that how to take care of other person, and not be selfish. I know that almost people are selfish, I’m also one of them. But if she felt that she is selfish by herself, it means, she can fix her imperfection. I don’t know my partner of marriage is beautiful or not, but I’m sure of only one thing that she has enough maturity and beautiful mind.